OK GENERATION

We are living in a world  in a time , where everything u do ,anything g u become or everything u desire is considered to be "OK" to be "FINE", And if anyone talks about those choices they are labelled us "judgmental freaks " or "barbaric mind" people...

This has effected our society as humans so badly , that nowadays kids and growing generation don't have any freedom to talk about anything they dislike or consider as bad choices of life...some don't even know the difference between good and bad , between "OK" and "NOT OK"..

This has destroyed to a certain degree our manners as humans , as parents , as teachers,  doctors , politicians and every department of our livinghood.. we see people destroying themselves with horrible choices but we keep quite , just not to be judged by the "OK GENERATION ".. some parents even teach thier kids not to be judgmental even if they see things stupid ..people who dare to speak are called names , are labelled as backward generation and as people who didn't evolve yet...

We agree that some things are considered as people's choices and everyone has their own preference and should not he judged.  But those things are universal nature of humans. We also have some common dislikes , wether we dislike those things physically,  emotionally or religiously. And if anyone does those things we should be able to talk about it and condemn it without fearing any backlash...

We should teach our kids that doing certain things is not ok.. for e.x changing ur gender is not ok , having sex before marriage is not ok..sleeping with the same sex is not ok..harming others in any way is not ok ..cheating,  terrorising,  looting others is not ok , sending our parents to old age home is not ok..etc...

Deep down in our conscious , we all know that these things and many more are not ok ,physically , mentally , emotionally and religiously..but we are scared to talk about some of them because of the "OK GENERATION "..

This ok attitude,  if not stopped will destroy our inner peace..we should be able to see things as they are without sugar coating or exaggerating them.. we need manners as humans to survive and live a less miserable life...we should have debates on how and why some things we do are not ok...

In conclusion... we need to learn how to say "NO IT IS NOT OK TO DO THAT , WITHOUT FEAR , TO SAVE OUR WORLD"

PEACE...

ADULTHOOD

Adulthood is not just about being at certain age as most of us think. Yes it can be about it when we talk about specific things , like marriage etc. But it also has  another meaning which is "MATURITY "

That ADULTHOOD can come with age , knowledge,  literacy and power of observation..it is not about physical growth only , but also mental , knowledge and emotional growth too...

It is the best and toughest time of a human age.. it is the time when most of us are getting exposed to different new things. It is the time when we are trying to make sense of things.it is the time when we are trying to understand logics of whatever is happening around us.. it is the time when we start making our own life decisions and taking the responsibility of it's outcomes good or bad...it is the time when we start enjoying life at most by exploring our thinking abilities and discovering our hidden talents fully...

It is also the time of mistakes,  misjudgments,  failures , anxiety , depression and many more mental or health issues.. it is the time when  humans are at thier peak of mental power , and also the time when they mostly don't know what to do with this power,  so they waste it.. it is the time when one bad decision or failure or heartbreak can lead into life threatening outcome.. 

As I said it's the time of goods and bad. we will try to put some light on the things most of us face at this age.like failures , anxiety,  depression , over competitive nature , overthinking , being insecure,  fear of failing  , low self trust or any other mental issues that may cause us our growth or sometimes else in our life...and try to have some solutions for them..

If we look at it closely all the common problems we face, we come to understand that the root cause of these problems are :

1 overthinking 

2 not thinking at all or not having any mind diversion at all..

3 having no faith on GOD or not acknowledging his existence at all..

4 not having patience at all or very low..

5 arrogance 

6 ego

These are the main cause of all most all the problems we have in this age especially and in life generally..if we understand  these problems and accept that we have them or some of them or even one of it , we may be able to solve them and enjoy our ADULTHOOD more and make our life happier and ourselves wiser..

Now time for some activities that can make it easier for us to overcome these problems..

1 have POWERFUL FAITH IN ALMIGHTY FOR WHATEVER HE DECIDES FOR U..

2 put urself in activities other than work..like play , read watch something.. do something that can give u some relief from daily routine ..

3 know very well that u can't escape ur destiny  , no matter what .. so try to find good in what u have and enjoy.. nobody is given all  not the bad neither the good..

4 look at who is higher than u when it comes to knowledge,  and who is lower when it comes to wealth , so that u can increase ur knowledge and be more giving and merciful...

5 be a good loser and a great winner..by that u won't become an arrogant or an insecure..

6 know that , nothing stays forever.. that believe will increase ur patience level and make u more accepting and more tolerant...

7 make forgives and giving back ur habit.. so that u can get blessings and clean ur heart and mind..

8 watch out for people who care about u , don't ever take them for granted..be grateful that they exist in this world full of "I don't care about anyone accept myself " for u..

9 be down to earth but not fool..don let urself cheated on or ropped or disrespected twice.. be kind but not dumb..try to let go , but after u give it ur all..

10 don't ever let go of something or someone u love easily or for some petty stupid thing.. love , respect and care are really rare these days..make sure that u deserve them and u can acknowledge them.. if u don't than u will end up in anxiety which may lead to depression...

These are the main problems faced at this age and we tried to make solutions for them...

I hope it makes difference in someone's life or in my life...

GOD BLESS US ALL..